Misconception of love : Definition, common misunderstandings in relationships
Love they say “is not s*x,it’s not given of gifts,but being in the mind of the other”! Really? Is it true and verifiable? If love is not s*x or giving of gifts, how could one be in the minds of another? Is it by magic that one lives in the minds of another for no reason? I think there is a kind of love that is being spoken here.
It is the type of love that just begins to develop. It is still at a very tender stage when nothing else is needed to generate affection but the inner qualities and physical possession of the other. It is at this point that neither s*x nor gifts can generate feelings, but ones natural make up. Gifts and s*x come to play, only when relationship has firmly established even at the point of marriage!
Neither premarital s*x nor gifts can give real love! It is a misconception that is injurious abuse!!!