Disappointment no doubt is one of the most heart breaking situations there can be. The situation most times is likened to the effects that one feels as a result of losing a loved one to death. But the worst of it all is that instead of knowing that this disappointing friend is dead,the convincing truth becomes that he is very much alive and hearty,somewhere. How can you cope with this denying situation? Here,we are bringing to you ways you can cope with disappointment from a boyfriend.
Whenever you get a message that it is over,and you could see that he means it, my dear baby,get up,go home,and tell yourself that you have just lost someone. Yes,believe you’ve lost someone. People loss their loved ones in many ways, either to death,or abolishment.
If you really love this guy and have done everything to make it work and he still failed you,the situation will definitely make you cry. So,don’t try to form any muscle,pretending you are strong. When it calls for tears,do not try to hold it back! Tears,could be the only medicine you might need at a moment like this.
Getting comfort is one more thing you really need to cope with this matter. Try talking about it with some trusted friends,or family members,or still,with a Psychologist. Open up to them and let everything be heard from how the relationship started to how it just ended. Tell them also the part that hurts you most,and get consolations from them. Letting out steams off your mind is a good medicine to your heart.
Whenever you receive a message of disappointment from your boyfriend even for no reason of your fault,accept it and let the sleeping dog lie. Don’t try to reawaken the situation in anyway. If he says it is over,convince yourself that it is really over with him too! He just made his choice,and whether you understand it or not,respect it.After all,no man on earth is the best! Let him go!! Read more: how to avoid further disappointment from a boyfriend
Keep your hand and your heart very busy. Have an establishment,and use this avenue of disappointment as opportunity to build yourself. Before long,you would see how wonderfully you are made,not fitting for any man as the man,who just disappointed you.
Conclusively,we could say that disappointment breaks the heart. And if you are not careful,you will be disappointed again by another boyfriend,as soon as you just come out of one.